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Is it weird if an average 26-yr-old woman living in a western democracy has never had a romantic experience?

Either with a woman or a man? Could that be normal, or should it be considered deviant behavior? Can it be healthy or is it related to psychological problems? If so, what kinds?

It's not deviant, but also not normal. Is this person deliberately, but subconsciously, rejecting any romantic advances from other people? I do think there are some psychological problems going on here.

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How Romance Is Easier To Find With An Experienced Matchmaker Not too long ago, and even in some families in eastern countries, in countries like India to be precise, you will normally hear parents who have children of marriageable age, making this comment,” our child is ready to be married. We shall soon have to find a match maker.” This might sound very weird and even quaint to advanced people of western countries, but then most of such marriages have been a great success, if not all. The tradition followed is very simple yet done in style. The matchmaker will have the details of the boy and girl and their respective families. He will look for such families who fit the bill perfectly and mention the details to both the families concerned. If the particulars like age, qualification, family tree, social standing and the family history appeals to both the parties, they decide upon a date and in most cases, the boy’s family agrees to visit the girl’s family. Polite conversation is made in the beginning, refreshments are offered and then the boy and girl are allowed to exchange a few words with each other. Once the boy and girl nod their approval, a tentative date for the engagement and marriage is fixed by elders in the family in consultation with the family astrologer. Sounds funny, right? A majority of such marriages have worked and are still working. Here, there is one major advantage. The boy and the girl both are mentally prepared to adapt to each other as all other aspects have tallied well and they feel secure in the fact that the wedding has the full approval and blessings of the elders in the family and in the event of any misunderstanding cropping up; elders will intervene to allay the differences. The psychological and emotional as also social security felt by the boy and girl plays a great role in strengthening their bonding. Another advantage in this kind alliance is the fact that the boy and the girl learn to accept each other as they are and make the necessary adjustments, a necessary component of any successful romance or marriage. Here, there is no wining before marriage and no whining after marriage! The situation is entirely different in the case of online dating and love at first sight. The demands are more, expectations are high and unrealistic and you get to know only one side of the face instead of the whole person. The romantic edifice that is built on a weak foundation crumbles after marriage and disillusionment sets in, leading to break-up. Exception are there no doubt, but then risks are quite high in comparison to traditional weddings arranged by match makers, where the match maker owing to his experience and knowledge, is able to decide better than the inexperienced youngsters who live in a world of fantasy.

About the Author:

Allan Tan is an experienced writer on seeking dating and relationships. He has been writing for many years and has had many articles published. Some of Allan's most favorite topics to write on include single professionals, mature daters, relationships, and matchmaking. Allan's articles are well written and memorable. They are especially great for anyone looking to begin dating and still keep up with their daily activities.

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