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Women: Do you like the way a lot of men dress? Or do you think they should be more flamboyant?

I just want to know do you think a lot of men dress sexy and attractive? What kind of clothes do you like seeing men in?

Do you think men should dress more flamboyant?
Grams: I don't know about you, but I see plenty of handkerchiefs on suits that are of a multitude of colors. They usually match the color of the tie.

I think men should be a little more flamboyant. I like to see bright colors on men and really pretty ties. Why do handkerchiefs have to be white? I wish men wore pocket watches like long ago, also. Grams

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So you and your wife are talking about getting a divorce, or maybe just separating for a while to try and work things out.  But there is still one huge task at hand that could possibly be the hardest things to go through than any other part of the divorce.

It is time to talk to your kids about what is going on.  Sure they have heard all the fighting and maybe even noticed how you and your wife have been spending alot of time in separate parts of the house, but they need to know what could possibly be the outcome.  Leaving them in the dark for a prolonged period of time, lets their active minds run, something that could easily do more harm than good.

An effective strategy on how to tell your kids about the problems that you and their mother our having could prove very important in avoiding any confusion, any blame games, and any breakdowns in communication that might occur.

First, make a plan with your wife to have a civil, straightforward conversation with your children.  It is essential that there are no arguments between the two of you during the "talk" and you must both agree that there is to be no bad-mouthing the other in front of the kids.  Remember, you are the adults here and it very important that you put all of your ill-feelings toward each other aside, for the sake of your children.

Second, you need to pick the most opportune time to talk to them and make sure there are no distractions.  Turn off the televisions, video games, and cell phones.  Be prepared to give them your undivided attention.  And when it comes time to tell them the you and their mother are having problems and are going to be spending some time apart be very, very careful to let them know that it is nobody's fault, and definitely not theirs.

Third, be prepared for a lot of mixed emotional responses.  Some children will be depressed/sad, some will be angry, others maybe be somewhere in between, and then there are those that will initially show no emotion.  Be very attentive during this process, and make sure that you do not have any plans because it may take awhile for it to sink in.  If they get angry with you, Do Not Get Angry With Them! Show compassion no matter what their response is, but do not go as far as to give them hope if you and your wife know that there is no chance of getting back together.  You will find that children will try anything if they think there is just the slightest chance that you will not be getting a divorce.

It is important that you do not end the conversation there.  Be willing to talk about it whenever they want, and answer questions when they have them.  Don't think that now that they know, you can turn your focus to other things.  Your children should be at the top of the list throughout the divorce process and beyond.

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